Partner questions

We should never take for granted the relationship we have with our partners. In order for a relationship to work, you both have to decide to work on it by spending time and having meaning conversations with each other.

This video from Love with Janel gave tips on how to deepen couple’s intimacy. She started it with acknowledgement and appreciation for your significant other, like naming something that the other people have that you are grateful for. There are also questions like, “Is there anything that you need from me?” and “Was there any moment where you felt really loved and respected?” Keep in mind that in order for your conversation to be successful, you both have to have an open mind and you should avoid being defensive.

I also find this video from Steph Anya helpful. She shares tips like validating your loved ones feelings and complimenting them and encouraging them.

Intimacy in a marriage or partner relationship can suffer if you're busy with other responsibilities, or so caught up in the day-to-day activities of life that you simply lose track of each other and who you're each becoming. When this happens, there are a few questions for couples that couples can ask each other to help rebuild intimacy.

Studies show that communication and self-disclosure help build intimacy in marital relationships. In short, taking the time to chat with your spouse or loved one can make your bond stronger. One way to use this time effectively is by asking questions to build intimacy.

Below are questions you can ask your partner to build intimacy:

1. If you could choose anyone in the world, living or dead, to have in our home as a dinner guest, who would you choose and why?
2. If you could choose the activities to do that would make a perfect day, what would you choose?
3. If you had a crystal ball that could tell you anything at all about your life that you don’t already know, what would you ask it to tell you?
4. What's your favorite childhood memory?
5. What are the 10 most important things on your personal bucket list?
6. When did you last cry about something and what did you cry about?
7. If you could wake up tomorrow morning with one new skill or ability, what would you choose?
8. What do you like best about our relationship?
9. What's something that you'd like to try, but that you're too scared to try?
10. If all of your friends were asked to describe you, which friend’s description would be the most accurate and why?

I hope you find any of the questions useful.

This Conversation Builds Intimacy

1. Go First. Share something personal, and this may inspire your partner to do the same, in an I'll-show-you-mine, you-show-me-yours situation. ...
2. Drum Up Some Fantasy. ...
3. Be Grateful. ...
4. Invite Them In. ...
5. Be A Comfort. ...
6. Be Practical. ...
7. Talk About Your Childhood. ...
8. Discuss Self-Improvement.

Building trust and intimacy in a relationship requires effort and commitment from both partners. Here are some steps you can take to strengthen your connection

Communicate openly and honestly: Share your thoughts, feelings, and experiences with each other in a supportive and non-judgmental environment.

Be reliable and dependable: Follow through on commitments and be there for your partner when they need you.

Respect each other's boundaries: Understand and respect each other's personal and emotional boundaries.

Show empathy and understanding: Try to see things from your partner's perspective and show compassion for their experiences and feelings.

Make time for each other: Prioritize your relationship by making time for each other, whether it's through regular date nights or just spending quality time together.

Engage in shared experiences: Do things together that you both enjoy, whether it's taking a class, traveling, or trying a new hobby.

Practice forgiveness: Forgive each other for mistakes and work through conflicts together, as this can deepen your connection and build trust.

Building intimacy in a relationship involves open and honest communication. Here are some questions you can ask your partner to start a meaningful conversation and strengthen your connection:

What do you value most in our relationship?

How can I support you better?

What are your hopes and dreams for the future?

How has our relationship grown and changed since we first met?

What do you appreciate about me?

What are your favorite memories of us together?

How do you see our relationship evolving in the future?

What are some of your biggest fears and how can I support you through them?

What are some ways we can improve our communication with each other?

How can we make time for each other and prioritize our relationship?

It's important to listen actively to your partner's responses and show empathy and understanding towards their thoughts and feelings. This can foster a deeper sense of intimacy and strengthen your relationship.

Building intimacy with your partner can involve asking open-ended questions that encourage conversation and help you both get to know each other on a deeper level. Here are some questions to consider:

1. What is something that you've always wanted to try but haven't had the chance to do yet?
2. What was your favourite childhood memory?
3. What's something you've learned recently that's been important to you?
4. What are your hopes and dreams for the future?
5. What do you appreciate most about our relationship?
6. What is something that you've struggled with in the past and how did you overcome it?
7. What is one thing that you're most proud of?
8. If you could travel anywhere in the world, where would you go and why?
9. What are some things that you enjoy doing in your free time?
10. What's something you've always wanted to know about me but haven't asked yet?

These questions are just a starting point and you may find that they lead to deeper conversations and new insights about each other. Remember to listen actively and respond with empathy and curiosity, and to share your own thoughts and feelings in response to your partner's answers.

Ask your partner questions that open up their soul, like what are their dreams, discover what drives them, ask what they are passionate about, discover their past, find out their hobbies and bucket list.