Why doesn't my husband pay attention to me?

hipster85
August 05
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My hubby never pays attention to me, why?

2 Answers:

thematrix avatar

There could be several reasons your husband isn't paying attention to you. Maybe he's preoccupied with work or other stressors in his life. On the other hand, it's possible he's not intentionally ignoring you but that he's just distracted.
If you're feeling neglected, talk to him about it directly. Explain how you're feeling and ask him what he can do to help alleviate the situation. Try to be understanding and patient as you work through this issue together.

baseballmuffin14 avatar

There could be several reasons your husband isn't paying attention to you. Maybe he's preoccupied with work or other stressors in his life. On the other hand, it's possible he's not intentionally ignoring you but that he's just not aware that you feel neglected. 

If you want him to pay more attention to you, try communicating your needs directly and openly. You could also try being more present and engaging when he is around instead of letting him off the hook when he's not giving you his full attention.

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